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5 Signs Your Girlfriend Is Seeing Another Man

"Mitch Holder" (2019-12-05)


class=Is something bothering you about your girl and your relationship? Gut feelings mean something - your girl may be cheating on you. Actually, there's a couple of other ways to tell if your girlfriend is cheating. Don't be hasty, though, these are just signs. You need evidence before you pass any accusations.

Is she getting a bit more dressy in her habits? Is she wearing a bit more makeup than usual? Those could be signs of cheating. Changes in appearance often presage the reality of your girlfriend cheating. Was your girlfriend once the type you could bring home to meet mom and dad? Then all of sudden she looks like she's ready to go to a party all the time. Women often start to gussy up when they want to start turning heads. Of course, you remember how she used to do herself up right to impress you. Check it out. Is she making an effort to look really hot on her supposed night out with the girls?

Is she starting to spend less time with you? That is a second indicator. What about "nights out with the girls"? Happening more often? Don't just shake your head, that could be another signal that your woman is fiddling around. The possibility exists that your girlfriend is cheating if her schedule changes to spending more time at work or with friends. Something is wrong with the relationship or she's cheating, those are the two most common reasons for her spending less and less time with you.

Perhaps you've noticed that she's not as "cozy" as she used to be. Not as intimately playful as she used to be. That may be your third tip-off that she's cheating. As a rule, women are affectionate creatures, so something is probably wrong if the loving diminishes or disappears. Did she once approach you with tenderness? Is that attitude gone? That too could be a sign that she's cheating. Are there no more goodbye hugs or kisses? Does it seem like she's just not into holding you like she did before?

The fourth clue: Are the friends you once shared with your girlfriend starting to come up with excuses not to meet with you? Perhaps when you try to talk to her best girlfriend, she doesn't have much to say or tries to melt away. How are her work friends treating you? Sort of cold? Most folks don't want to get involved in fidelity issues and that's why they've been dodging you. Nobody wants to get between the rock and the hard place. Don't be a jerk, but it wouldn't hurt to talk to those who are avoiding you so that you can get the whole story.

Lies. That's your fifth clue and the most obvious. Have you caught her being two-faced regarding some circumstances? Often, cheaters will lean on their friends for alibis or other lies. If somebody's cheating they must become liars so they can try to get away with what they're doing. You can catch cheaters red-handed, but they'll still lie. And some of the lies can get rather hilarious as they involve too many details or are over-explained. The truth about lies is that they are the best tip-off that your girl is cheating on you.

If you've been keeping score and have checked off a number of the activities listed above, there's a pretty good chance that you're getting cheated. But don't be a jerk. Before you accuse her of cheating, you need to have some solid evidence, not just signs.